Support for Families of Addicts in New Hampshire

You’re not alone. Whether your loved one is ready for treatment or not, you deserve support too.

You're Not You're Not Alone

You’ve been watching someone you love struggle with addiction, and it’s exhausting. You’ve tried talking to them, setting boundaries, researching treatment options at 2 AM. You’re terrified of losing them, but you’re also angry, hurt, and maybe even hopeless.

You might wonder if you caused this, or feel confused about whether you should help more or step back. You might feel guilty asking for help when they’re the one with the addiction.

Addiction Affects the Entire Family
This isn’t just their struggle—it impacts everyone who loves them.

Addiction Affects the Entire Family

This isn't just their struggle—it impacts everyone who loves them.

You Need Support Too

Your well-being matters, whether or not they're ready for treatment.

We're Here at Every Stage

Whether they're in treatment, considering it, or refusing help.

How to Help Someone with Addiction Even When They Won't Get Treatment

You can’t force someone into addiction treatment. But you can get addiction help for families, learn how to communicate effectively, and find support while you navigate this situation.
Our family support for addiction is here at every stage—whether your loved one is in treatment, considering it, or refusing help.

Get Support for Yourself First

You don't have to wait for them to be ready. Our support for loved ones includes therapy, education, and guidance—even if your loved one isn't our client.

Understand What's Happening

Addiction changes how the brain works. Understanding substance use disorders helps you make sense of behaviors that seem incomprehensible.

Learn What Helps vs. What Enables

We'll teach you the difference between supporting recovery and enabling addiction.

What to Do When Someone Refuses Rehab

Ways to support when your loved one won’t seek treatment

Family therapy

Counseling for yourself and loved ones

Support groups

Connect with other families

Education & Workshops

Learn about addiction and recovery

Professional Guidance

Advice from addiction experts

Al-Anon Meetings

Support for families of alcoholics

Nar-Anon Group

Help for families of drug users

How to Talk to Someone About Getting Help

“How do I talk to my loved one about going to rehab?”

Choose the Right Time

Use "I" Statements

Offer Support, Not Ultimatums

How to Set Boundaries with an Addict

Setting boundaries protects your well-being while still loving someone struggling with addiction

Financial Boundaries

Emotional Boundaries

Safety Boundaries

How to Help Without Enabling

Embrace Support

Offering to research treatment together
Attending family therapy or support groups
Learning about addiction and recovery
Taking care of your own mental health
Setting clear, consistent boundaries

Avoid Enabling

"Recovery isn't just about stopping substances—it's about building a life that feels worth living."

— Clinical Therapist, Heartfelt Recovery Centers

Family Support for Addiction: What We Offer

Individual Therapy for Partners

Couples/Family Therapy

Support Groups for Partners

Family Therapy and Education

Understanding addiction and co-occurring mental health
Communication and de-escalation skills
Boundary setting and follow-through
Self-care and stress management
Recovery support and what to expect
How to respond to setbacks

You Don’t Have to Navigate Addiction Alone

Whether you’re a spouse, partner, or family member, we provide the guidance, support, and tools you need to heal, set boundaries, and rebuild healthy relationships.

Supporting Long-Term Recovery

During Treatment

After Treatment

Should I Force My Loved One Into Treatment?

Voluntary treatment generally works better. People who choose treatment are more likely to engage fully and sustain recovery.

However, external pressure can spark readiness. Many people enter treatment to satisfy family or employers—and still achieve lasting recovery.

Involuntary commitment is sometimes necessary in life-threatening situations. In NH and MA, families can petition for commitment when there’s immediate risk of overdose death or danger to self/others.

What Actually Helps:

Creating consequences for continued use
Offering concrete treatment options
Expressing concern without controlling
Maintaining boundaries while staying connected
Getting support for yourself regardless of their choices

You're Doing the Best You Can

You didn't cause their addiction. You can't control it. And you can't cure it.

But you can get support for families of addicts in New Hampshire. You can learn healthier ways to respond. You can take care of your mental health. You can set boundaries without guilt. You can hold onto hope.

Ready to Talk? We're Here to Listen

When you call, you'll speak with someone who understands what families go through. We'll listen, answer questions about family addiction guidance in Southern NH, and help you figure out your next step.

Heartfelt Recovery Centers

41 Sagamore Park Road, Hudson, NH 03051

Serving: Hudson, Nashua, Manchester, Salem, Derry, Merrimack, Litchfield, Londonderry, Northern Massachusetts

Confidential Support

Family Therapy for Addiction

Insurance Accepted